Picture this: You're three months out from that girls' trip to Napa you've been planning for a year. The group text has 247 unread messages. Half the group wants wine tours, the other half wants spa days. Two people still haven't paid their deposit. And you, the unofficial "trip coordinator", are losing sleep over logistics you never signed up to manage alone. Sound familiar? If you're nodding along, consider this your wake-up call. Group travel doesn't have to feel like herd